After talking about Ji Ming, it seems that their conversation should be over.
But Chang Sheng said to Ji Leng, "I have another thing in the old season."
"Well, you said"
Chang Sheng pondered it and said, "Actually, I was thinking that it’s not a long-term solution for you now … Your parents will get older and older, and this family will need more and more. You can’t leave your parents for a long time, and your son will have to wait seven years before he can be completely successful. What will you do? And you don’t have a regular job now, and your income is always up and down. You are a middle-aged man, you are old and young, and you are the pillar of your family. Is this not possible? "
Ji leng fell silent when he heard such a series of rhetorical questions from Chang Sheng.
In fact, he has asked himself this question many times-can’t he go like this? I can’t make money and still live apart from my wife. When my parents are old, I can’t be around to be filial. Besides, I have to rely on my wife to support this family when I am a man in my forties. It’s a shame to say it …
But how can Xiaoming realize this dream without himself?
He is so young that he can’t take care of himself.
Ji Leng won’t return to China if his mother hadn’t hurt him.
Put up with the eyes of neighbors and relatives because of other ways
In their view, they suddenly quit their promising job, let their children drop out of school and go abroad to play football. What’s really crazy? What is it that a person is crazy and even involves the separation of children and his wife?
He can’t explain to these people what "children’s dreams" are. In their view, children’s dreams are unrealistic and change their ideas every day. If they are children, they say, "Dad, I like playing football", then quit their jobs and take them abroad … That’s really what people with mental illness do.
Maybe one day, when his son is kicked out, he may have the confidence to go home and accept the envy and appreciation of his neighbors and relatives, but now he can’t produce anything to prove that his choice is correct.
In fact, even he himself still doesn’t know whether his choice is correct or not.
Maybe … is right …?
Or he hopes to be right. If he paid so much, spent seven years and finally failed, I’m afraid he and his son can’t afford such a blow.
……
After winning the question, Ji Leng has been silent for a long time.
Changsheng didn’t continue to ask, but waited quietly beside him.
He knows that this question is a bit sharp, and he doesn’t know whether Lao Ji can face it calmly.
But whether he can or not, he will face this problem sooner or later.
Some things don’t have to be faced without pretending you don’t care.
Dream is a very good thing, and it is easy to resonate with people as soon as it is said.
All the talent shows you watch, every contestant on Channel 1 will say "I have a dream", "Singing is my dream" and "My dream is to perform on a big stage …" Then the judges and the audience will be moved.
When it comes to dreams, it seems like a noble thing.
People will think that people with dreams are very high-end and foreign.
However, although the actual dream is something out of thin air, it needs reality as the foundation.
If there is no realistic foundation, dreams are doomed to be castles in the middle.
Because dreams can be far away and great, but people with dreams need to eat and have material needs
Without economic and material foundation, no matter how beautiful the dream is, it is just a mirage.
Ji Lenger’s dream is a good thing. Ji Ming can concentrate on his dream.
But Ji Ming has to face a very real problem-he has to support himself and his son, and he even has to support his wife and parents. Besides, his wife and parents are also his parents …
These all need money.
No money to talk about dreams?
This is why dreams appear among young people most of the time.
Because they are young, they don’t have to bear too much responsibility, and if they don’t think too much about reality, they just have to start all over again because they are young.
But what about middle-aged men?
Old and young
They are involved in too many responsibilities, and they are shouldering the livelihood of their family.
They have to be realistic. They can’t afford to lose. They are not qualified to dream.
This is why people will be particularly moved when they see middle-aged people pursuing their dreams.
Because they all know … That’s really not easy!
Ji Leng does not pursue dreams, but Ji Leng Er has dreams.
It can be said that the dream of cold season is to realize the dream of children.
This is the need for money
Where does the money come from?
It’s definitely not from the sky, is it?
It is such a realistic problem that Ji Leng, a middle-aged man in his forties, is worried about white hair and many wrinkles.
Changsheng looked at the gray temples and the cold season was still waiting for him.
Chapter three hundred and thirteen Winning ideas
Ji leng recovered from his memory and found Chang Sheng looking at him very much.
So he smiled shyly.
"I don’t know … let’s take it one step at a time."